I feel the list misses one negative consequence, especially if the secret is a dysfunction or real tragedy/misfortune rather than JUST being different.
People wilk feel SORRY for me. That's scary. Idk why, but my monkey fears that. I overshare A LOT in a way that allows me to control for people being sorry for me (rational, purposefully making myself look a bit bad, making self fun) to avoid the sympathetic pity.
I feel the list misses one negative consequence, especially if the secret is a dysfunction or real tragedy/misfortune rather than JUST being different.
People wilk feel SORRY for me. That's scary. Idk why, but my monkey fears that. I overshare A LOT in a way that allows me to control for people being sorry for me (rational, purposefully making myself look a bit bad, making self fun) to avoid the sympathetic pity.